A COVID Diary (Part 5)
Dear Reader,
Letâs talk about the children, their summer, their entry back to school. Moments when ânormal lifeâ miraculously appears. New words now normalizedâcoronavirus, self-isolating, masks, antibodies, hospitals, and funerals. This column is for families and how history forever imprints itself on what we are living through.
July 10
Eight-year-old Nathanialâs composition:Â
âNothing Can Take Happiness Away.â Sung to a sweet tune, the lyrics are: âHappiness is a wonderful feeling/Nothing can take happiness away./Itâs a wonderful feeling/Everything is great when youâre happy/Happiness is a wonderful thing.â He sings with such sadness it could break your heart.
July 14
My daughter, Sarah, and her daughter, Maddie whoâs four, are going to the park to play with a little girl whoâll be at school in Madeleineâs pre-K class. Sweet older brother, William, gives her his backpack heâs stuffed with her treasures, especially Maddiesâs red velvet purse. Â
July 29
My engaged grandniece plans a wedding for Spring, 2022. The familyâs hoping all the backlogged 2020 weddings will have mostly cleared. âSave the Dateâ will be mailed in October 2020 for two-and-a-half years out.
My granddaughter, Izzy, whoâs eleven calls twice today, sensing how much she lifts my spirits. My eyes well with tears.
August 8
From my daughter: âThe five of us are watching a movie and I tear up. Maddie pipes up, âMommy, are you crying?â She stops me from wiping my tears, says, âThatâs a kid job. Iâll go get the toilet paper.â She runs to the bathroom, comes back with the teeniest piece, clears my eyes, then puts it under my nose. âBlow,â she says. âYouâll need a bigger tissue,â so Maddie runs to get it. Each time we watch a movie, my little one checks to see if Iâm crying.â  Itâs moments like these that can save us.The Washington Post: In a two-week span, 100,000 children have tested positive for corona virus.French cousin Yves: âAbout Franceâs inheritance laws, you cannot disinherit your children. If you remarry and have more kids, theyâre also in the will.â
August 14
Marsha de la O: âThe Child Who Escaped into a Tree.â I still visit that tree sometimes, now that youâre in your thirties,/ the crook of the trunk higher these days than any/ foolish mother could reach. But back/ then I lifted you into the dusk and bright/of leaves, fresh dappled air silkening /one branch up. Was she more sure/ of herself than I thought, or was it/ontologicalâwhat new-sprung world/ is this canopy-one, to grass to grow,/ to go home to? I tried to change her/mind, cajoled and commanded, but/ greenâs not silent, it speaks its praise/of light and shadow even in a slight/ breeze, and a young primate harkens./Up she scrabbled into small rooms/ of luster, lit leaves, green fire, plush/shadow; she climbed into velvet./ She got away from meâthis/soul, this agile monkey-creature, my only one, held in the green body/of the world by a greensound song.âÂ
Ziv in Palo Alto is surrounded by three fires. âSunday there were 367 lightning strikes with hail and rain. The redwoods are now on fire. Last night the pollution measured 414 so I took the kids to our friends twenty minutes north. Thanks to the crazy microclimates, the airâs clear here. They say the Bay area has the worst air on the planet.â
August 29
Andy says at the end of his two-hour undergraduate class in Art, Design and Visual Culture, 58 students turn on their mics and thank him for the class. âThatâs never happened before,â he says.
September 1
Clare in Alabama, tells me about Nick Saban, Alabamaâs football coach who, with his Tuscaloosa team and others, march for an end to social injustice.
September 6
More than 20 NYU students suspended for breaking coronavirus rules. Northeastern dismisses 11 students for gathering in a hotel room. North Carolina State University is closing student housing amid covid-19 outbreak on campus.
September 10
Cathy reports about the birth of Wes Blumenthal. Just core family members attended the bris and the rest of the invites watched on Zoom. Circumcision brought to you by Zoom.Â
From my grandson William whoâs eight:Â âWhat if people could buy Pokemon cards on their computers that I could trade with them?â
Salute to Topanga Homegrown and owners, Leslie Carlson and Jane Hoover who opened the womenâs, menâs, and babiesâ clothing store in September 2000. Theyâve since added toys for toddlers. Homegrown keeps us in fashionable Topanga styles at affordable prices. Itâs a friendly place to shop where merchandise is artistically arranged. Even the window displays catch my eyes. Leslie retired two years ago but Jane continues making available things like fun kitchen towels, cards for occasions, and a tempting array of one-of-a-kind items. She mentions a line of stuffed animals, or âstuffies,â from England where Jane is from, called âJelly Catsâ that fly off the shelf. A feeling of wellbeing permeates me and others when we cross the threshold. May Jane and Tarra, her helpful employee, survive during these difficult times.
photo by: KARINA ANASTASIA ROCHE
Topanga Homegrown keeps us in fashionable Topanga styles at affordable prices.